HOW TO PLAY
Take turns asking each other questions. Listen with curiosity.
Have fun in the process.
CHECK THE DEPTH METER
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ACCESS THE RESOURCES
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What is a question you wish someone would ask you?
What is a small kind act that you do for others that also makes your day better?
When was a time you felt really listened to?
How did it feel?
The importance of being heard
THEME: Connection Inward
When was a time you felt really listened to?
What would your “For You Page” say about who you are? Does it get it right?
What is a question you wish someone would ask you?
Think about who you’d like to ask that same question to. Reach out to them and ask.
A simple text can be powerful
THEME: Connection outward
think about these stories.do you relate to these storytellers?
What is something that brings out the real you?
Knowing our true selves helps us connect to others’ stories and it helps us tell our own story.
THEME: Connection Inward
think about your story and how you relate to these storytellers
What would your “For You Page” say about who you are? Does it get it right?
What helps you feel safe?
What parts of your identity feel most visible online and what parts feel most hidden?
How do you recharge when you’re feeling your “social battery” is running low?
Do you ever feel lonely online?
Theme: connection inward
How does that loneliness feel similar to loneliness you experience in-person? How does it feel different?
Have you ever changed something about yourself (IRL or digitally) because of something
an algorithm recommended
to you?
Share a moment when you created a meaningful connection with a stranger. How did you feel?
When do you allow yourself to feel what you need to and when do you bottle things up?
Theme: Boundaries & Burnout
What boundary could help?
Which apps or feeds usually make your feelings meter go up (positive) or down (negative)?
When do you allow yourself to feel what you need to and when do you bottle things up?
Have you ever changed something about yourself (IRL or digitally) because of something
an algorithm recommended
to you?
Theme: Digital Mirrors
What was the recommendation, and what did you change?
What is a new social media feature you think would protect young people’s digital wellbeing?
Have you ever changed something about yourself (IRL or digitally) because of something
an algorithm recommended
to you?
Which apps or feeds usually make your feelings meter go up (positive) or down (negative)?
Theme: Boundaries & Burnout
What is a topic, popular opinion, or other tool you use to find common ground with people who you may not agree with?
Which apps or feeds usually make your feelings meter go up (positive) or down (negative)?
What is a new social media feature you think would protect young people’s digital wellbeing?
Theme: Boundaries & Burnout
If you could recommend one strategy to defeat burnout, what would it be?
What is a new social media feature you think would protect young people’s digital wellbeing?
THEME: Connection outward
What is a topic, popular opinion, or other tool you use to find common ground with people who you may not agree with?